Hey,

Well, you have two options here.

1) You can to try and talk to hm about the situation. Talk about how he’s acting, what’s going on between you two, where you stand, everything. That’s the only way to get true closure on it all and will help you come to an understanding with him.

2) Just wait and see what happens. Give him more time to respond and just try hard to move on for now and see what happens. If he’s the right guy for you, you will be with him. If not, then that’s okay! He may just be needing some time to think about things, and you can give him that time. Just sit back, relax, and let everything fall into place. :)

Whatever you choose, always remember that everything that is meant to be will be. I know situations like this can be hard, but reminding yourself that can help you so much!

-Sarra <3

Hey,

There’s no need to feel bad! You should never envy somebody, especially over a phone. I know it can be so hard, but you just have to be thankful of what you have and appreciate it all. Because most people don’t even have phones at all! And honestly, the iPhone phase is going to dull out soon and they’ll be something new out that everyone is obsessing over.

Just keep remembering the things that you have and love that most people don’t have, and it will help you get over the whole feeling bad thing. :)

-Sarra <3

Hey,

If he as a girlfriend, then I would keep my distance from him for now. You don’t want to get involved with something like that, because it will end up causing problems for everybody involved. I know that it would be great to go to the beach with him, but you really need to think about what’s best for you, and I think staying away from him a little bit and being cautious is best in a situation like this. I would wait and see what happens with him and his girlfriend before taking any actions. He’s definitely not somebody that you want to get involved with, regardless of how much you like him, because he seems like a jerk to me and just bad news. He’s not being loyal to his girlfriend, and that is VERY important.

Ultimately it’s up to you whether you go to the beach or continue talking to him, but I would hold off for now and wait and see what happens. It’s never good to get involved with something like that. :/

-Sarra <3

Hey,

Aw, I’m sorry that they’re like that! But you just have to remember that they are doing their best to protect you and want to make sure that you’re safe. That’s their job, after all!

Well, if you want to discuss it all with them, then you can either sit them both down and have a big, mature talk about everything. Tell them that you’re mature and that you aren’t the type of person to go to parties or drink, and just explain to them how you feel about everything. If you’d rather not talk to them in person, then you could write them both an E-mail or letter explaining everything. Sometimes it’s easier to write how you’re feeling/what’s going on instead of saying it, you know? It’s totally up to you what you choose, but just make sure you explain exactly how you’re feeling so that you can all work together to make this easier for you and them. :)

-Sarra <3

Hey,

If you want to be friends with him again, I would talk to him and tell him how much you miss your friendship and that you want to have the same friendship as you used to before you leave. Talk to him about it and see what happens and what he says and take it from there. And that way you will have complete closure on the situation and things will be a lot clearer to you. :)

-Sarra <3

Hey,

Yes, I completely am aware of this and take that into consideration every time I respond. However, when I do tell somebody to try and talk to their parents, it’s only when they bring up their parents and say that they want to talk to them about something. So I tell them how to go about that in the most appropriate manner depending on how they say their parents are. It can be very difficult to get through to parents without causing problems, but I give them the different options that they would be able to try. I never say that it’s going to work, but when someone is asking how to talk to their parents, I give them the options that they could try.

I totally understand the different types of parents out there and I’ve experienced and have met with various types and know their kids and know how their kids talk with them or deal with them, so I take every type of parent into consideration when I’m responding. It’s just a little more challenging when someone writes in and doesn’t let me know how their parents can be, which may be what you’re thinking of.

Thank you for your message!

-Sarra <3

Thank you SO much. This really means a lot to me. You just made my day. :)

-Sarra <3

Hey,

I’m also a hypochondriac so I know exactly how you feel! I always think something is wrong with me and every little I pain I feel I think it’s something horrible. 

If you’re in school, you can talk to the school nurse about it and see what she thinks. She may be able to tell you what it is or even give you a note to give your parents saying that you need to go to the doctor.

If not, then maybe you can sit your parents down and talk to them about this.Tell them that you would feel so much better if you went to the doctor and that you’re just going to keep worrying and worrying if you don’t get it checked out.

But also remember that if something is really wrong with you, your parents will know before you do and they will definitely take you to the doctor. My parents have told me that my whole life because of my constant worrying, and I’ve just started to realize that it’s true. Parents always know best and always know when something is wrong with their child. But you can tell them that it will make you feel a lot better and try to come to a compromise with them.

And of course, you can do what I do a lot, just wait it out and see if you start feeling better. Most/all of the times that I’ve worried about something, I just wait it out and see if it passes. And it always does! Whether it’s gone in a day or a couple weeks, I realize that it was all just in my head. So try to focus your attention on other things besides your stomach and see if you feel better. Thinking about it makes you feel a lot worse and can even bring on certain pains/illnesses.

-Sarra <3

I get over 40 messages a day and respond to every single one of them with the help of my friend. I’m always there for you, even if you can’t appreciate the hard work I do. Sometimes tumblr doesn’t send messages, even when you think you sent them. Sorry that you’re having a rough time and that you don’t want me to help you, but remember that it always gets better and you have a great life ahead of you. :)

Boob size never matters. You’re beautiful just the way you are. Just appreciate those who help you and treat everyone kindly and you’ll have improvement in your mood. :)

-Sarra <3

Nope, I don’t think we got it. Can you resend it?

-Sarra <3

Hey,

I would just take one on the weekend or something when you’re at home and see how it affects you. That way you can get to know the side effects and how they make you feel and you’ll be able to know if it’s going to make it difficult to pay attention in school. Because usually all pills work differently for people and they always say you should test them first and see what they do to you.

Of course, you can also call your doctor or whoever makes the pills and see what they say. They’ll have a better idea of what will happen when you take it. :)

-Sarra <3

Hey,

Usually when you like somebody you know for sure and don’t have any doubts. There’s no confusion or thinking about it, you just know. And if you don’t know for sure, then you most likely don’t have any feelings for him. And when you like someone, all of the annoying aspects of them disappear and you only see the good.

But take some time and think about things. Ask yourself the basic questions that help you determine whether you like someone or not. Can you picture yourself dating him? Kissing? Do you like thinking about those things? Do you get that feeling of like/lust in your heart/stomach when you see him? Take some time and think about those things to help you figure it all out. But again, normally when you like someone, you don’t need to ask yourself these questions.

-Sarra <3

Hey,

I know it’s hard- but you have to try not to worry about it right now. You have to let your parents deal with it and figure everything out, because you don’t need the extra pressure and stress. They can figure out how to work together to make things easier for everyone involved, because it is an adult matter and is best handled by adults. If they talk to you about it, then listen carefully to what they say and what the plans are. I know it’s so hard and scary to think about, but you just have to keep your head high as best as you can and see what happens. Let them deal with it all and you can discuss it with both of them when they approach you about it. :)

-Sarra <3